Thursday, August 16, 2007

Friends Forever.....

I had a blind belief that feeling that friendship between a boy and girl will diminish slowly once the girl gets married. As time went by I realized its a false belief I had.

My best friend got married into a very orthodox family. There was huge list of written rules and infinite non-written ones. After getting to know this I thought that its the end of our friendship. She called me up a month after her marriage, at that time I spoke to her hubby also. He said if at all I feel like to speak to my friend I am welcome to call after 10:30pm to his cell phone, becayse thats when he reaches home. Recently, he invited me for dinner which was attended by his friends circle also. He made me sit next to him in the dinner table and introduced me to all his friend's and their wives. What a nice friends circle he had... everyone mingled just as if they know me for years. Lucky me and lucky my friend to get such an husband.

Another good friend of mine, got married to an USA alliance. After school days, she was the one who used to update me everything happening among our friends. When she was leaving to USA, she gave the task to me and said she will call me once in a month. I never thought it will happen. Surprisingly, she called up almost every month. Recently, they relocated to India permanently. We went out for a dinner, it was a job treat given by her husband.... :). Since she is back in india... she is taken her job back of collecting news from all frens. She is another lucky girl of my highschool batch...

The list goes endless... out of 18 girls in my school batch... I am almost in touch with 10 of them... we still call and have a nice time discussing about others... Whenever I think about these things... I do believe that god is there to hear our prayers.... :)

1 comment:

forbidden.angel said...

Whow ! Im so freakin bad at being in touch wit mah frnds at a constant rate..its like we talk once in few months..but the very one time we talk..we brush the whole thing up n bcoz of dat.. i really dont get the feelin dat we had like such a long gap